Tinder and All

I’ve really done the unthinkable. I’ve joined Tinder. It really isn’t my first time in the world of online dating. I’ve done the whole OkCupid crap but I never really had any luck. The truth is, I really don’t know to date. When I was 18, I fell in love. Almost four years later, I was single and heartbroken. I thought he was my end game. I was very naïve. Of course, after, I’ve had a few dates here and there but nothing truly worthy of anything more then a few weeks.  But I’m extremely glad I didn’t get involved with anyone in that time. Without that time, I wouldn’t have learned so much about myself. I know that sounds cheesy but I’ve gone to being a girl so wrapped up in the idea of someone else to a woman who can stand on her own two feet. I don’t need to be in a relationship anymore. I just would like a companion, someone who can be an equal rather then a possessor.  So I know Tinder isn’t the greatest way to meet a person but it’s hard in this new age to really date. I honestly don’t expect to fall in love. I don’t expect anything anymore. I let it all fall into place. I’m still young and I need to get out there. So maybe this is answer. I’ve promised myself to try anything new. So why not? Different country, ever evolving girl.